Kind idealist

First name

EcoMystic

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

I’ve loved women (born women) since I was 5 years old and fell in love with my best friend.  I celebrate and see the beauty in women just as we are.  I have no teeth nor do I wear dentures, make-up, rarely a bra or shoes. Im very sincere and I honor the body of nature in my changing body. I’m drawn to kindered spirits who can delay gratification and suffer gracefully.  Im friendly and well liked, but I am isolated because most people feel threatened by my idealistic ethics....such as not eating animal products because I don’t support torturing animals for a taste preferance, or my not being patriotic because I don’t believe the color of my passport makes me a better person than anyone else...and certainly does not give me the right to kill them in war.  I’m a pacifist, very intuitive, earth based, mystically inclined and follow omens and divination, but I can also enjoy a traditional church or temple that shares wisdom, compassion, faith, prayer and meditation. Im inspired by synchronicity and interconnection with all of life. I’m transparent in my feelings, polite, and share my thoughts without much calculation.  Im not interested in politics or current events unless I can make a difference. I risk easily for what I believe in and my past has much peace activism and civil disobedience. I am trustworthy, and empathetic. I look for the best in others and don’t criticize or like to be criticized. Later in my life I’ve lived mostly rurally remote, I LOVE nature, but in my youth was a wild big city girl. I’m a saver, and don’t use credit or have debt. I saw through the myths of status, possessions and unlimited consumption as a path to happiness at a young age and am content with a simple minimalist  lifestyle, (although I do migrate between my two small homes in Idaho and Hawaii for comfortable weather.) I live near by my mom who has beginning dementia and she is grieving the devastating loss of loaning my dad to death after a 70 year long romance. I too am a widow - of an 18 year lesbian marriage, but Its been 15 years past for me now. Im not ready for cohabitation again, but I do approach relationships whole heartedly, with dedication and trust. I’m sensitive and easily overwhelmed by violence, loud mechanical sounds, chemical fragrances, and am a caring subtle listener and communicator so overbearing or one sided conversations are not pleasant for me. In Myers-Brings test I’m a rare INFP.  Some of my interests are ... mindfulness, hiking, dream interpretation, organic permaculture gardening, herbalism, creating and witnessing art, bike riding, birding, all forms of dance and music, well written subtle books and theater or movies, creative natural home improvement, farmers markets, snorkeling and swimming in wild places. I soak at miracle hot-springs early thursday mornings. Self expressive free-style dancing to live outdoor music is my most confidant flow experience, but deeply understanding myself is very important to me, so I can also be private, reserved and self-conscious. Ive an intuitive understanding of symbols and patterns... like tarot and astrology(sun ♓️,moon ♈️, rise ♍️,eastern philosophies and traditional healing modalities,  I don’t relate to competitive sports....I’m always rooting for the underdog. I’d rather be early than late...to show respect. Ive been to 15 countries, all states... but don’t enjoy being a tourist.  Im a devoted and supportive friend and have a “live-and-let-live” attitude because I dislike being constrained by meaningless rules. Although lonely in an existential way, I also enjoy being alone. I know My profile sounds serious, but I’m also light hearted and playful and laugh easily. I’m invoking local friends, distant pen palls and perhaps a sacred witness and long-term companion some day.
Smiles across the miles. 🌻💗🕊

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Feet

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Dancing, Theater, Gardening, Volunteering

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Compassion, communion, joy, love,

What Do You Find Attractive?

Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Other