Blues Luv'n Hippie

First name

DeWayne

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a nice guy seen more often as a friend than a lover. I take pleasure in helping others in any manner that I can. The past 5 years have found me totally alone, no family, no friends, just me and my guitars. I'm okay with being alone, I like me and I enjoy my company. However, I know that life can be so much more when you have someone special to share it with. I love music, obviously, and I also love nature and enjoy being outside going to live concerts and music festivals. I'm also disabled, I have suffered from chronic pain for the last 22 years following an accident which I was never supposed to have survived...surprise, I don't believe in quitting. My music is my pain medication. I let them feed me nsaids and opiates early on until they damaged me further and I has to say no more. I still get around okay but I do make use of a wheelchair, now my scooter courtesy of the VA, whenever I go out more as a precaution than a necessity. This social distancing thing is nothing new to me, it has pretty much been my life for some time now. My philosophy on life is that damn glass can always be refilled so get up and take care of it rather than worrying over the half full half empty nonsense. I'm a Buddhist and I look for good in all things, especially people. I'm a long time hippie who loves to use the word groovy as much as possible and one who has lived a full life. I have no bucket list to speak of as I have never been one to put things off until later. Some might call such behavior compulsive but I just considered it experiencing life. I'm Mensa level intelligent, yet smart enough to know that I need not pay an annual membership fee to belong to some club to know I am intelligent; that always seemed somewhat stupid to me. I'm educated with graduate degrees and before I was injured I taught mathematics. My lean to the left has increased rather significantly these past two decades as I have witnessed first hand just how important it is to help our brothers and sisters in need. I was homeless for 4 months and found peace and happiness through helping others who had even less than myself. I'm definitely an optimist, why else would I still be utilizing online dating sites to hopefully connect with a genuine person after being catfished so many times I'm beginning to feel like stinkbait. But I know that my best friend is out there somewhere and as stated, I don't believe in quitting especially when the odds are stacked against me. So if you happen to see my best friend lurking in your mirror, will you please tell her to message me? Thanks

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Heavyset

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Other, Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Disabled Musician

I Make This Much In A Year

Less Than $14,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - But Non Tobacco

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Strange

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Photography, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Been so long since I dated that I honestly do not have a clue here. I don't drive so I am open to suggestions. I enjoy coffee whenever I go out, tea drinker at home, and I enjoy the beach. It would definitely have to facilitate talking so we can get to know each other and decide if we want to put in the effort to develop a strong friendship. A relaxed atmosphere that puts both at ease, meeting for coffee/tea perhaps.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I have no bucket list, anything that I have ever wanted to try I tried at the moment that the inspiration hit me. From riding bulls and bucking horses as a teen to jumping out of airplanes, climbing mountains, base jumping, and cave diving, I have enjoyed a somewhat adventuresome life up till now. These days I'm quite content to kick back and just play the Blues on one of my guitars. Life happens and then it don't, we are only given a limited amount of time to experience life, how we fill that space is up to us. Be happy, experience life, experience love.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

My Religion Is

Buddhist / Taoist

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To find happiness for myself and others. To live a simple, peaceful life free of desire. To be open to love, open to life. To live by the mantra:"I Suffered, I Learned, I Changed."

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Anthology, Biography, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Watching a beautiful sunset while sitting fireside along a remote stretch of beach playing the Blues on my guitar in the accompaniment of groovy like minded people. Seeing the beautiful smile on a groovy like minded lady as she grooves to my music makes it all the more fun. Dancing naked under the moon, around the fire, in the rain...hell, just dancing naked is always fun.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Honesty, laid back attitude, must love music, nature lover (have you hugged your tree today?, when was the last time you told your houseplants that you love them?), intelligence, and some degree of empathy. Intelligence is most attractive.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed, Other, Marriage, Doesnt Matter