Love Melts All Blockages

First name

Paula

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Greetings! I am a warm, kind, compassionate soul who looks for and finds the wonder and magic that surrounds us all.

I'm on a karmically based spiritual journey so being good and doing good is a major focus of my life. I'm a healer, and have just recently decided it is time for me to do this for a living. I'm starting a business with friends, healing pets and the people who love them. For the past 6 years I have supported myself as a pet care specialist. I had learned that I was carrying heavy karma from past lives surrounding the mistreatment of animals and to make up for my mistakes, i.e. self-clear my karma, I need to work with animals in this life, making their lives happier and healthier.

My likes include: Beatles, Ben Folds, Bowie, the beach, pizza, nature, paper crafting, exploring, adventuring, problem solving (life, not math). Going to the drive in in the summer, hanging out by, near or in water. I'm picking up the guitar again after years of it sitting and gathering dust, music is a key element in my life.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 3 (1.6 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

No

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Auburn / Red

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Boss

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Cars, Playing Cards, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Something mid-day, open air, maybe a walk along the waterfront, talking - getting to know each other, stopping some place for coffee or food. Easy, no pressure.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Scuba Diving

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

to help others. The world has taken a turn for the weird and it's going to get worse before it gets better. I have skills and abilities to help people improve their lives. It's time I put them into action.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Health, Humor, Instructional, Music

My Idea Of Fun Is

I like being outdoors, vintage car shows, flea markets, antique and second hand shops, trips to the beach, going to the drive in, roller skating, Saturday Market

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

You are good hearted, kind and generally happy. You have a positive outlook and helping people comes naturally to you. You love animals, nature, water and you do what you can to make things better in the world. Wait, that's me again :-)

Ok - but still, these are the traits I need to see in you, too. You are intelligent and have a good sense of humor. Mechanics are welcome to apply, I am comfortable hanging out in the garage. Do you cook? Fantastic! Into woodworking? Great! A musician? Excellent!

I am going to be totally honest here, at the risk of becoming very unpopular - I have always been attracted to boyish good looks and a full head of hair. My dad had male pattern baldness ever since I could remember and I never understood what my mom saw in him because of it. I remember as a teenager seeing older couples and wondering if when I was older if I would be attracted to 'age appropriate' men. Here's the thing - when I got into my early 50s, it seemed that all the men my age looked like my dad. I have avoided online dating for a long time because I placed to much importance on pictures. This time I'm ready to dig deeper. I'm also asking a friend to assist me in this process. With her on board, if your profile pic has you in a hat, sunglasses or no smile you will still stand a chance.

Deal Breakers: If you run negative, grouchy, complaining, judgmental please move on. You need to be able to form a sentence without f bombs. You need to be able to form a sentence.

I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone who gets me. I see things from a different, often quirky, angle - always looking for the good. I'm a breath of fresh air in a stale, stale world.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed