shaken not stirred

I Would Describe Myself As

The following basically sums me up: Well, I'll do the best I can in such a limited space. I’ll start by saying that the largest goal in my life is to become an ever more conscious and present person…and to have a blast doing it!! This is of SUPREME importance to me. I'm a gentle, quiet and sensitive man with a big heart. I don't like really loud environments, I feel a bit lost in them. I've had hard times in my life and easy times in my life; I guess that's all part of the grand scheme of things. I've been told by people that I am insightful; life has put me through a wide range of experiences that helps me to relate to all sorts of people. I'm a "feeler"... I listen and feel more the tone of voice people use when they talk, more so than the topics being discussed... I think it can convey much more meaning and truth in lots of cases. But, I also admit that it can be a downfall of mine, because, if it's a data exchange type conversation, I can often be less aware of the topic being discussed...I'm always working on it at least. I'm...constantly learning and refining myself.I'm introverted at times and at other times I'm extroverted....I guess that there is a range for me; I suppose that there is a time and place for every mood. The woman I'd like to date, should respect herself, take care of herself, and know herself. She should know herself! This is so, so important! It shows me that she is experienced with life and experienced with her self-awareness. She should know what she wants from a life partner. I think that this is very important. For me, and MY personal likings also, she should be comfortable being "touchy feely" when the moment moves her so. I've learned from experience that I tend to prefer a gentle, soft and tender woman who can express her love through touching and caressing and lots of intimate eye contact...I want to feel present and engaged when I'm with her...I want to almost feel are souls merge...so that we become together, something bigger than the each of us individually. I'll be vulnerable here and write that, although, I am a strong and capable man when it's necessary, in many ways, I'm still just a little boy inside, a bit unfinished, and still looking, and craving, almost "motherly like" attention and love. Cute huh?! (Maybe you don't think so...I don't know). As a multidimensional person myself, I like a woman to be similar in that regard and have a wide range of personality too....in order to best match mine; included in that range, should be a comfort with herself and her sensuality. However.... I'd like her to have the traits that a modern independent woman possesses also. I admire a woman with a mind of her own; her own thoughts, beliefs, opinions and personality. I want to be able learn from her; she is my life partner! This is naturally a two way street; I will absolutely support my women to the fullest capacity of MY "range of personality". I will give her everything I have to give! I am definitely one to return loving, touching favors as well as supportive, affirming, and validating ones. I will absolutely cherish the woman I love; I will give her back 10 fold all that she gives to me, instinctively and without thought. I admit though, that I am a victim of human male evolution...I am open minded, but I admit, physical beauty IS important to me. It's not everything. But, I usually have to be initially physically attracted to the person for it to work. I am what I am!!! However....what I am is also a man with a good mind and soul and open to at least trying virtually all possibilities. That being said...please give me a try. I may love the opportunity to get to know you!

Sign

Libra