Sensitive, Strong, Liberal, Fun Educated
ChiTom
Cullman, Alabama | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Tom
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
A free spirit, I’m a well-educated, busy guy working lots of hours here in Cullman, AL. An avid motorcyclist, I spend much of my free time around bikes and various activities with brothers and sisters in the wind and other local friends. I also enjoy exploring local antiquities, nature & historic sites, antiques and cooking – love to cook and I’m great at it. When I have it, down-time at home usually involves melting into the sofa and streaming some good movies. While I don’t go out for music nearly as much as I used to, my time at home is often accompanied by whatever Pandora’s serving up in Blues from the 60’s forward. Still, as much as I relish my alone time, I’d like to find someone special to share the things I enjoy with.
I’m interested in meeting a free Spirit secure in herself who considers herself complete just as she is. I'd like to find a connection in mind, spirit and heart that grows over time. It progresses from communication, to knowing, to being. As I become interested in getting to know someone to whom I am attracted, physically and intellectually through correspondence and conversation that leads to dating, that person alone has my complete attention – I don’t bounce around. That having been said, I was married for 23 years and divorced in 2006. As I’ve been on my own for a long, long time, including much of the time when I was married, I’m quite uncertain as to whether or not I could ever marry or even live with anyone again. While I’m not ruling that out, I don’t think I’ve ever had a soulmate and we’d have to see that in ourselves for anything like that to be possible – just being completely honest and open.
I’m interested in meeting a free Spirit secure in herself who considers herself complete just as she is. I'd like to find a connection in mind, spirit and heart that grows over time. It progresses from communication, to knowing, to being. As I become interested in getting to know someone to whom I am attracted, physically and intellectually through correspondence and conversation that leads to dating, that person alone has my complete attention – I don’t bounce around. That having been said, I was married for 23 years and divorced in 2006. As I’ve been on my own for a long, long time, including much of the time when I was married, I’m quite uncertain as to whether or not I could ever marry or even live with anyone again. While I’m not ruling that out, I don’t think I’ve ever had a soulmate and we’d have to see that in ourselves for anything like that to be possible – just being completely honest and open.
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Slim
My Height Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Arms
Body Art
Scarred
My Hair Is
Silver
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Manufacturing / Distribution
My Job Title Is
Welder
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Dining, Photography, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Theater, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing
An Ideal First Date Would Be
A long dinner over which we can enjoy good conversation.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Hang gliding.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
Freedom expressed in service and friendship with gratitude, in grace, serenity and love for all. Sometimes challenging, but I keep at it.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Blues, Jazz, New age, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Biography, Philosophy
My Idea Of Fun Is
Motorcycling, road tripping, cooking for friends, film - cerebral, in-depth stuff, deep phillosophical conversation late into the evening.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
I’m interested in meeting a free Spirit secure in herself who considers herself complete just as she is. I'd like to find a connection in mind, spirit and heart that grows over time. It progresses from communication, to knowing, to being. As I become interested in getting to know someone to whom I am attracted, physically and intellectually through correspondence and conversation that leads to dating, that person alone has my complete attention.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed