The PapaDude Abides.....

First name

Bear

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

Staunton - 40 miles west of Charlottesville - South Central part of the Shenandoah Valley.
If we were to hit it off, it's likely we are both splendid needles in the proverbial haystack...... Because you might look here on an especially boring day or night - not because this ad in any way reflects the intentions of most online quick fix/one night stand ads....
This ad seeks the opposite.....
the unusual, creative, self aware, life outside of the box woman who has a twinkle in her eye, a tenderness in her soul and a full bodied yearning for a kind of intimate belonging with another that she likely has never even seen between 2 people & she knows it is possible because of how it calls from within. I have been married once - divorced since 2000 & have 3 grown sons who have given me 6 grandchildren. I am part Native American - Occaneechi and am an activist regarding Native or First Nations issues. I am also involved in children's causes like - Make a Wish and Smiletrain. You might have had me till the "down to earth" thing and any hint leaning to the fascist t rump cult theocracy idiocy and anti-vaxxer attention seekers, please pass me by. Better if you are fairly fit, since i am active as far as hiking, golf, tennis, bowling, billiards, darts, mountain biking and just being outdoors. Also, not interested in you if your pets are the zenith in your life - a part of - is different. And if you fart a lot, get a butt muffler. Made you giggle just a little bit..... If you insist, willing to lie about how we met. May all you ladies walk in peace, hope and love, bear or osito.
ON THE Bear Dickinson
MAY THE SUN
bring you new energy by day....
MAY THE MOON
softly restore you by night....
MAY THE RAIN
wash away your worries....
MAY THE BREEZE
blow new strength into your being....
MAY YOU WALK
gently through the world and know
it's beauty all the days of your life.

~a traditional Apache blessing~~

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Engineering / Mediator / Consultant

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - But Non Tobacco

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A simple lunch where we can talk - get to know each other - Ice cream or Gelato.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Almost nothing i have not tried, lol.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

Happiness and contentment - peace.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Reggae, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Auto-biography, Business, Comic, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Music, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Satire, Science, Sports, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Connecting with others -all God's creatures.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Confidence. You can see it in her hands and when she looks you in her eyes.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed