maybe its our time this time Who knows

First name

Terry

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

What I am looking for? ...Well .....First and foremost we must be each others best friend, an absolute true friend! The one person that any subject, concept or concern can be discussed without the judgmentalisms that can leave one indifferent to the openness of free flowing thought. Second we have to be honest, honest to a fault yet tempered in such a manner as to not outright mean. Lastly there needs to be a loyalty for and total trust in one and other. Trust in having the knowledge that for the most part that no matter what we would be there for each other, a shoulder to lean and cry on. Assured with the confidence of knowing that no matter how hard ones day was there would be awaiting arms for that much needed hug just by the asking..eventually just by the look on your face or in the sound of your voice.
I am very aware of the fact that these concepts can not be achieved to any real degree over night they can only be grown over time. They tend to hold within themselves the requirement of constant conscientious nurturing along with continual maintenance to securely solidify the galvanization of the very values they represent.....still I sure would love to run into that one special someone who unknowingly yet consistently left me with the feeling of hope "for the rest of our life concept".but..these days I feel that most everyone.. someways myself included understandably seem to be caught up in their own world.

The part where what is in our heart, mind and soul seems to fall a distant second to the what you own or how much do you make and ever so popular the whats in it for me. Far to many are completely absorbed in their electronic leashed -app based-face book-twitter-texting mind ****ing game playing mania that has swept modern times. Way to hypercritical to ever invest the time to reach any depth, to truly make the effort required to explore the other person to a level of understanding of the unique balances of complexities that makes one out to be so very special and somewhere along the way falls short of experiencing the magical warmth of the journey that moves two people from just acquaintances into a loving couple eventually achieving soul mate nirvana..You would need to possess that special spark that seems to go hand and hand with being an optimist, It would be nice if you were the type to wake up each day with a positive outlook on life and always if possible make the most out of what ever the situation presented. In these current times of Covid
Thats a true challenge in itself.
It is a must to possess and utilize solid communication skills, including conflict resolution skills. I need to know that you have the moxie to go toe to toe with me in a debate and if you feel your right pull out the points and show me why..I enjoy the outdoors just as much as anyone, love kayaking, hiking, even dogsleded yet these are so inconsequential, as to having that someone who can carry on a conversation while we are on an easy going road trip, I miss having the bbq's and dinners come right down to it I do like to cook, just not so much only for myself. Would like to have someone to join in and share with on outings as The B Street theater, maybe the occasional brunch down at Bodega Bay, or at Tahoe. Keep in mind that I would be counting on you to add to our adventures with a few of your own..
I think of myself as a laid back very independent multifaceted individual, an enigma of sorts with an old soul, currently a little lost, just looking for that one special someone to connect with, to constantly stay connected with on all levels if that is possible.. to care for.. to blend with like a fine Shiraz ...to grow old with and one can only pray for to never to grow old of..
Maybe I am a dreamer, truly a wishful thinker!. Am I asking for more that one should ever expect?... I hope not.. I have to go with the belief that with the right person this all falls right in place with so little effort
If you've read this far
I thank you

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 3 (1.91 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Other

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some University

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

Self

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - But Non Tobacco

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Learning, Tv, Movies, Internet, Theater, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies, Sleeping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

In these current times I'm not even for sure if there is such thing as
"Going"anywhere on a first date

I've Always Wanted To Try

fly fishing
Would like to learn how to sew
I have a lot of upholstery I have to do sooner or later

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, I Don't Have Any Friends

My Religion Is

Other

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Lol gave up on most of those a while back
I wouldn't be here if I didn't want to meet somebody to possibly enjoy the rest of my life

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Blues, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Home & Garden, Political, Reference, I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

Single for so long I'm not for sure what fun is
I love dogs, I like to kayak, Beach and road trips
And as dry as this sounds
I enjoy designing and working on my project with the enjoyment coming in having whatever I am trying to create actually work out
If that makes any sense to any of you I don't know.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

someone who can tolerate a man who is willing to give up most normalses
Of life's bacics to build and probably live out the rest of his life in a bus
with some exceptional over the top amenities yet a far cry from being done.
Oops ..the educated X long haired redneck in me has been exposed...oh well!
I'm not going to be holding my breath but I sure wish
I could find somebody who could take my breath away

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Committed, Doesnt Matter